Friday, May 7, 2010

Why is the grass greener on the other side?

Does this happen only to me?

That once you have got what you felt you always wanted, you suddenly lose all the excitement that had surrounded it…You get bored and you start pondering why you even struggled all this while to get it… You just lose all the enthusiasm and your supposedly “ideal” world becomes your worst nightmare. That you start missing your life before the “thing” had happened to you and you start wondering- Did I lose something precious in my pursuit for something better?

Isn’t it strange, how your mind loves playing games with your heart sometimes….?

8 comments:

Janaki Sincro Mulay said...

That's why at every level of life we need to have a different "Goal" !

Maybe your life is suggesting you to have higher expectations! You are meant to do more than what you set as your Goal!

Life has so much to offer..... so much to do....

bhavin said...

Exactly J....
I have experience this quite many times... and now I feel, it's just a signal that I need to go beyond now!

deadlykali said...

All Ancient spiritual systems tell you to set two kinds of goal... a short term goals and long term goals.

A short term goals are like your material goals and long term goals are your spiritual goals...you can balance your life by investing systematically in both the "goals"..

Thus when one hits a 'block' other goal takes over..
simple checks and balance systems.
see our ancient gurus we excellent life management Gurus... =))

Di said...

@deadlykali: Thanks for the gyaan :-). I think it's time I sit down and chalk out my "spiritual" goals.

Very Deadly Kali said...

Ask Mama!! she is good at this.
In life everything comes to you at right time right place!! Go with the flow!

Unknown said...

exactly... everything becomes so boring ....its a sign that we have forgotten to change and everything is become so monotonous.....

to the extent that ur acheivement also becomes a part of it...monotonous life...

i guess all we need to do is either we try to make modifications in current acheivement which will amuse us more....
or even better set a new Goal and start our pursuit for that....

life is ever changing

Di said...

@Raseeka: Welcome to my blog, and thanks for reading the post :-).

Soniya Usgaonker said...

thts very true...
once u get what u alwaz wanted , a time comes when u r relaxed ,and then u go in flashback...and u start recollecting all small lifes enjoyements tht u missed on, to get dis bigger success...but then i think it ws worth to justify by decision ...may b d heart is sumwhere sad but mind is happy..